Ask what you actually want to know.

Where you shine is in how you make each other feel. His Venus connects with your Sun in a way that creates genuine warmth between you, the kind where you walk into a room and he lights up, and you feel it without him having to say anything. You also bring out ambition in each other. His Mars energy pushes your Sun forward, and your presence makes him want to be more than he was before he met you. That combination of feeling deeply seen and being genuinely challenged by someone is something most people spend years looking for.

Where you struggle is in the space between feeling and saying. Your Mercury and his Neptune are in almost exact opposition, which means the closer the conversation gets to something that really matters, the more likely one of you is to walk away having heard something slightly different from what was said. Add to that his Uranus sitting right on your Moon. Emotionally, you can never fully exhale around him. The connection feels alive and electric, but underneath it there's a low hum of instability that shows up right when you need to feel safe. Those two things together, the communication gap and the emotional unpredictability, are where most of your friction actually lives. Not in the love. The love is clear. In the translation of it.